Learn what a good reader does so you can have an amazing reading experience that truly touches your soul.

Many people want to have a reading but have heard the horror stories from others. That have been scammed and or frightened! By reading this article you will be enlightened on the things that honest and ethical intuitive readers and spiritual mediums do. This will not only help you avoid getting scammed, it will also help you get a session that is beneficial.

So let get started! Below are the seven traits of a good psychic reader:

1. They leave judgments at the door.
Readings and judgments don’t mix. A good psychic reader knows this and puts aside all of their biases and personal feelings when they are in spiritual mode of working.
Here’s an example: A client named Sherry hard such hard feelings towards her mother. For years and years she had not spoke with her mother. In fact her mother reached out to her again right before she passed away. But Sherry would not take her call. She had such feelings like blaming her mother for many things in her childhood. That she felt was just unforgivable. She also didn’t allow her mother to meet her children.

Soon after that last call she learned her mother had passed away. She never got to see her or try to resolve the hurt feelings.

Sherry was feeling so much guilt and shame when coming in for a reading.

Sherry should not feel ashamed when she goes for her reading because this is a time for her to be showered with the unconditional love of her spiritual team… and spirit doesn’t judge. There is so much love for each person during a reading. It is hard to describe just how much love there truly is.

The main job of the reader is to share the messages they receive from your Angels, spirit guides and loved ones in heaven.

This is a wonderful opportunity to gift Sherry with unconditional love, kindness and empower her by showing her the love her spirit team has for her very own soul.

A client of mine was told by an unethical psychic once that she was going to die early in life! Very scary and she was totally freaked out. The reader was very intense and used many scare tactics during her reading. A sense of drama was what my client said.

A session with a good ethical psychic reader will be uplifting and make you feel good. Prior to your session, they will have set the intention that the information you receive is for your highest and best good as well as only allow light and love in.

There shouldn’t be any kind of filling your ears with what you want to hear, they will focus on what your spiritual team believes you need to hear (such as life lessons) – always in a positive and non-judgmental way.

When you are complete, you should feel uplifted, motivated and never depressed or frightened.

2. A good psychic reader will not scare you – ever!

I know is is almost Halloween and most everyone enjoys a little scare. However, they will always encourage you to be comfortable, relaxed, and at ease. They will never frighten you with scary news and they will not:

Tell you that you have any type of bad luck curse – this is the number one psychic scam of all time! Stay far far away of giving anyone money due to them promising to break a curse for you. If someone tells you that you have any type of curse and they need money to remove it, they are a fraud! No exceptions!

Predict death – typically the only exception may be when someone is terminally ill – a spiritual medium or intuitive can sometimes pick up on this if it is in your highest and best good – for example, to give you a message to spend more time with your loved one. Other than that, we cannot predict death.
Diagnose serious health issues – Intuitive readers may sometimes tell you to have something checked out, but they are not doctors and do not make medical diagnoses. If you are interested in seeing someone who gives intuitive health readings, make sure you proceed with caution and use common sense.

3. They always believe that honesty is the best policy.
If you ask a question to a good psychic reader and they don’t know the answer, they will admit it. They will not try to make information “fit.”

You may think this is an oxymoron – after all, shouldn’t a good psychic reader be able to tell you everything you want to know?

The answer is no, and here’s the reason why: Readers of integrity play by the rules. If an answer to your question is not coming to light during a session, they know there is a reason. Many times it could be your spirit team feels you are not ready for that information.

Also, they will not give you predictions such as:

Lottery numbers. Ethical psychics and mediums are interested in helping you in your soul’s journey – not in the lottery. Besides, lottery numbers are drawn by chance, therefore, they cannot give you any gambling tips.

4. Remind you that decisions are always yours.
This is truly important!

A good psychic reader will offer insight, but still encourage you to take charge of creating a life plan for yourself.

They will not tell you what to do, but they may be able to shed light on why certain events are happening in your life. This eliminates psychic dependency and also empowers you.

If you are trying to make a decision, they can ask your spirit guides for further information about the path you are currently on versus the new path you are thinking of taking.

Bottom line: If you hear a psychic say something like you must do this-and-that, run run run. You have the right to do whatever it is that you want to do.

Never, ever do something that does not feel right to you.

5. A good psychic reader is respectful.
We respect the religious and spiritual beliefs of others. In other words, they will not force their personal beliefs onto their clients.
They are also respectful of their clients feelings, and deliver sensitive messages with compassion.

6. Sometimes work for free when they are beginning their learning.
Legitimate psychics realize they have a gift. As a result, many will offer free readings in the beginning when learning or they feel lead to do so. But here is the deal – those free psychic readings are not advertised. Why you may ask?

Good psychics many times only offer free readings to people they know. Think about it. Would you go to work each day and not be compensated? Why would a psychic?

Things you may see:

Many psychics who advertise “Free readings” are usually running a con game. The goal is to give you a “taste” of their “abilities” to lure you in.
Psychics who support themselves with their rare gift (which they have invested time for increasing their gifts, classes, programs, mentoring and more) need some income to survive.
The old saying “there’s no such thing as a free lunch” applies here.

A good psychic reader will:

*Be up front about the fact they charge
*Work with you on a sliding scale if appropriate
*Set limitations on how much they can discount

7. Teachers
Because good psychics are masters of their craft, they make for natural teachers. Meaning they are willing and highly motivated to help you grow your own psychic abilities – something everyone has.

Fake psychics won’t teach you anything. Instead, they just want to make as much money as they can and as quickly as possible.

Here are a few more traits of a good psychic:

*Will recommend books or classes or resourses
*Give you tips on things to start paying more attention to
So now that you have these 7 signs you can choose wisely on finding a good psychic medium reader that will be a good fit for you.

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Blessings, Stacie’s

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